Welcome to Your Divorce Recovery Life Quiz

This questionnaire is designed to give you insights and tools to begin your journey of healing and moving on after your divorce.

Fill it out with as much detail and honesty as possible and I will send you back a customized analysis to help you gain more clarity about where you are now, where you need to concentrate your focus as well as supplying you with specific skills to use in your recovery.

The cost of the Life Quiz is $25.00

A) YOUR LIFE NOW

1) Where are you facing the biggest challenges right now in terms of your divorce?
Coping	Accepting	Negative Mind Chatter
Sadness	Anger	Blame

2) Of the above answers, which two are the most pressing?
Coping	Accepting	Negative Mind Chatter
Sadness	Anger	Blame

3) What have you made your divorce mean about yourself? For example, do you feel like a failure? A reject?


4) What are you doing these days to take care of yourself?


5) Have you accepted your divorce or do you still find yourself thinking of what should or could be?


6) Who do you blame for your divorce?


7) What do you fear the most right now?


8) What three things are you most tolerating or putting up with in your life?
a)	b)	c)

9) If you could have more of ONE thing in your life right now, what would it be?

B) CREATE YOUR GOALS

10) Create 2-3 goals which would make a BIG difference to your life right now. Choose goals which would free you to energetically move forward in your life and which could realistically be achieved within the next few months.
a) Goal
Achieve By:
b) Goal
Achieve By:
c) Goal
Achieve By:

11) What would you need for your future to look like in order to let go of your past?


12) Who would you like to be? What qualities would you like to possess?

C) SHOOTING YOURSELF IN THE FOOT

13) What does your negative mind chatter tell you about yourself? Does it tell you all the things you cannot have or do or be? What do beat yourself up over?


14) Assuming all human beings have some way of holding back or sabotaging their life, which are favorite methods right now (choose three)?
Procrastination	Indecisive	Arrogant/ being right
Acting as "Lone Ranger"	Tolerating	Not saying "No"
Controlling life /people	Not saying "Yes"	Following secondary goals (i.e. goals that won't ultimately make me happy)
Not always telling absolute truth		Other:

b) When you notice yourself doing this behavior (sabotage), what could you do differently in order to overcome your self-sabotage?

D) COACHING

15) What do you know about Life Coaching?


16) a) If you had your own coach, what would you probably get from the coaching that would be most valuable to you? (3 maximum)
Challenge	Accountability	Focus	Support
Inspiration	Direction	Sounding Board	Ideas/ Strategies
Validation

b) If you ever decided to work with a coach, what would probably be the best time for you to start?
Within the next 10 days
Within the next 30 days
Within the next 3 months
Within the next 12 months

E) YOUR DIVORCE RECOVERY REPORT AND GUIDE:

Divorce Recovery Report

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