Shelley was not only there to help me through the final stage, she ran through many cycles with me. I had the divorce, the “Shelley great news, my Ex and I are back together”, the confusion,  the reunited and back to “its over”.

Shelley has done it all without missing a beat. She kept bringing clarity and experience to my emotionally chaotic life. Life is tough, but there is hope and happiness and she can get you there.

What an insightful, caring, strong and inspirational woman.

“It’s easy to feel lost and disheartened when going through the process of divorce.  Perhaps the hardest part for me was dealing with the loneliness that goes along with a long-term relationship breakup.  I discovered Shelley’s name when I heard her speak on a Divorce Radio podcast.  I did not have any experience working with a life coach and yet I called her anyway.

Shelley was very helpful in helping me frame my divorce as a learning tool rather than merely a tragic event.  Together, we worked on remembering my successes rather than failures.  I was also grateful for the tips and advice that Shelly gave me to help quite my mind-chatter and self criticism.  Another useful tool that Shelley worked with me on was setting firm boundaries with my former spouse.  There’s not magic pill to take away the grief and pain of divorce.  Working with Shelley’s understanding nature and compassion helped make the process bearable.”

“Shelley has a gift  for helping people who are stuck in any stage of the divorce process and want to move forward.  She is warm and wise. When you are “in divorce”, it is like being in a tornado.  The pain makes it  hard to get your bearings and to have faith that you will get out and will arrive SOMEWHERE safe and sound.  In many ways, you feel as though you are struggling for your very life.

Shelley is your GUIDE.  She listens very carefully, has practical suggestions, supports you, but most importantly she lights a candle in your tunnel and helps you FEEL your way out of the mess.  You can trust her 100% and she will not let you down.

Forget spending money on “quick fixes” , sign up for coaching, and commit to really creating your new life out of the ashes.   I did coaching for about 6 months, and it helped me more than I can possibly express.  I am deeply grateful to Shelley.”

“Shelley Stile makes all the difference. She manages to inspire, motivate, support and comfort with genuine empathy, a sense of humor and great purpose. Her wealth of knowledge and insight is enriched by her professional and personal experience.

A successful divorce goes far beyond a fair and just legal resolution. For me it involves acceptance, clarity and the desire and ability to live life with perspective, new energy, health and joy. Shelley’s coaching will enable you to achieve this. She is a must have for every divorcing and newly divorced woman.”

I highly recommend Shelley’s counseling to anyone who is going through a Divorce.  I felt I had someone holding my hand while giving me support with great advice.  It really made a difference in my how I felt, and began seeing things differently.  I was surprised at the knowledge I gained working with her.

The advice not only pertained to my divorce situation, but I have found it and her tools very helpful in my day to day living.  Follow her instruction and you will receive the answers that will heal your wounds. Learn to live in the NOW of life. You will see the difference in how you feel immediately.  I was a victim of divorce, now I am VICTORIOUS over divorce!  Now I love living my life.  Thank you Shelley!

Shelley has been my beacon of hope in a very disheveled life – a life going through divorce and all the confusion, grief, fear and anger that brings. And oh yes – it brings more emotions to be sure – but it would take too long to list. I would often get the “Deer Stuck in the Headlights” feeling, but she gives you the tools and know-how to get to The Other Side of Divorce. She explains that the “other side” does not condemn you to a life of negative emotions and baggage, but rather a life of hope and fulfillment. A new life with you at the helm. Through actionable steps and keeping you focused on creating a new life of your making, she gets you through this difficult time in your life… all with a sharp wit and – at times – a toughness that is necessary, in order to quiet your inner gremlins who won’t shut up until Shelley shows up to break up the pity party. And all the while, I always felt that Shelley really listens to me as if I’m her only client, and doesn’t offer cookie-cutter or “one-size-fits-all” advice. I’m not finished with my journey to the Other Side of Divorce yet, but thanks to Shelley, I’m not dreading it. I’m now eager for it – and prepared for it.

I entered into these sessions looking for someone to explain the chaos, lessen the pain; and help me move beyond the emotions.   And, if that is all that occurred, it would have been well worth the effort.  But these sessions have been so much more.  Shelley has set before me a transforming journey of exploration and understanding and from the ashes I found ME.  Thank you Shelley!!

I don’t know what I would have done without Shelley’s guidance through this divorce. I felt so hopeless but she has given me the inspiration to go on. Her first hand experience of how painful a divorce can be, gives her all the knowledge a person could possibly need to help others.

After my first session a sense of peace came over me and I knew with her guidance, insight, knowledge, passion and faith in me I would make it through this…I couldn’t have made it without her…

I am an organized Type-A personality career woman who travels the globe. By the age of 56, I have a fairly good idea of my goals; my strengths and weaknesses; where I want to go next and how to get there. When I spent my first session with Shelley on the phone, I realized there is real value in saying these things out loud; prioritizing and reprioritizing, on an ongoing basis; and using the expertise of a life coach to move forward. The time I spent with Shelley really helped put my feet to the flame and made me want to give Shelley’s services as a gift to many of my friends and colleagues.

“Shelley, you are indeed very good at what you do. You are incredible insightful, perceptive and sensitive to the individual. You are thoughful and provocative in a non-threatening way. You have helped me to see things that I don’t think I would have seen in the way that I have. You have helped me get through an incredible difficult time in my life and I am forever grateful to you for that.”