Divorce Decisions: Do I Stay or Do I Go?

This question and its answer, will determine the course of the rest of your life. It is a decision not to be taken lightly and not to be done without an exploration of yourself and your options.

Too many people find themselves in unhappy marriages and truly confused about what to do with their lives?

They ask:

• Do I want to live my life like this forever?
• Is there any chance of transforming this marriage?
• What is holding me back from making a decision?
• What am I afraid of?
• Who am I now?

What is interesting about the process of Divorce Coaching is that it can be utilized for discovery, clarification and empowerment purposes for people stuck in bad marriages. It is a Discovery Process in that you discover everything you need to know to make your decision about your marriage.

I’ll give you an example: 

I have a dear friend who was very unhappy in her marriage but was not ready to make the final move to divorce. She just wasn’t certain what she wanted to do.  She wasn’t certain if it was really the end of her marriage.  She just didn’t know which direction to move but she knew she couldn’t stay stuck where she was.
 

She committed to Divorce coaching to assist her in understanding both herself and her marriage with the end goal of making a fully informed decision about what she wanted to do with the rest of her life. Her willingness to confront the truths in her life along with her desire to ensure that any decision she made was based upon a fully conscious choice, gave her the gift of transformation both in her life and in her marriage.

That is not to say that the Divorce coaching process always results in a transformed marriage. It doesn’t. But it always results in a transformed individual, a person who has gained enormous wisdom from the experiences of their lives; a person who has healed the emotional wounds of their past so that they are truly free to live their best life possible; a person who has had the opportunity to explore and rediscover themselves so that their vision of a life well-lived will come to fruition.

Make your decision for divorce based on a fully-conscious choice

Whatever decision you come to, rest assured it will be based on a fully, conscious choice. A fully conscious choice is one wherein you are fully aware and conscious of any and all motivations you might have. Your decision on whether to stay or go is based upon your own personal empowerment and clarity on what is possible in your life. The knowledge and skills you gain from the Divorce coaching process can be utilized in your marriage or in your life after divorce.

You will be able to apply all the gifts of your Divorce coaching to all the relationships in you life…especially the relationship you have with yourself. Contact me now and we can talk about the Discovery Process of divorce coaching in your life.

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You have to take extra good care of yourself now. You’ll need all the strength and energy possible.Contact me today and we can talk about the best ways to nurture yourself so you can do the work of divorce recovery. Your first 30 minute divorce recovery coaching session is free.

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